In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, etiquette specialist Jacqueline Whitmore discusses whether it's okay to send cards letting ... and grooms sending a ‘You Are Not Invited’ card to friends ...

but have you ever gotten a “you are not invited” card to let you know? According to a post on Reddit, that is one couple’s plan for their upcoming ceremony invitations. The poster ...

Viktoriia Bielik/Getty A bride and groom have left a family member taken aback after sharing their decision to send "you are not invited cards" to the people who didn't make the cut on their ...

“I just found out that the wedding couple are sending ‘cards’ to people that are not invited, saying that they are getting married soon and ‘you are in our hearts on this special day ...

The user also shared how they are sending “you are not invited cards” to people. A couple who is all set to get married in September is sending "you are not invited cards" to their guests.

An etiquette expert is weighing in on the controversial concept of brides and grooms sending a ‘You Are Not Invited’ card to friends and family ahead of the wedding. In a recent post on Reddit ...

What’s uncommon is when a couple sends out “You’re Not Invited” cards to the people who aren’t lucky enough to get a place setting at their wedding – and that’s exactly what one ...

The family member said in part, “I just found out that the wedding couple is sending ‘cards’ to people that are not invited that they are getting married soon and ‘you are in our hearts on ...

The “you’re not invited” card just feels like they are fishing for extra gifts. Tacky,” wrote one user. "I am always looking for excuses not to go to a wedding, and this one would be a jackpot," one ...