Etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore is weighing in on the controversial concept of brides and grooms sending ‘You Are Not Invited’ cards to friends and family ahead of their wedding.

Yet another person joked that the family member should send their own card to the bride and groom with the message: "Dear Cousin, While you are in my heart on your special day, I'm so sorry that I ...

“The not invited cards are to get gifts, who are they kidding,” another agreed. One Reddit user suggested: “Depending on if you would like to see the family and are otherwise healthy.

Bride-to-be’s ‘strange’ excuse for sending ‘not invited’ cards to people By Eleanor Katelaris, Kidspot Published July 26, 2024, 1:28 p.m. ET ...

The “you’re not invited” card just feels like they are fishing for extra gifts. Tacky,” wrote one user.