For me, the sweater is a visible and wearable symbol that I am going to be okay, that I will find my way and that I can rely on my own strength along with the wonderful things my mother gave me.

If you let go of the idea that you need or want to have a new wardrobe every season, I think it’s easier to then go: Okay, I am going to buy one $150 fully wool sweater, and I am not going to ...