Sometimes we take for granted that our partner has the "obligation" to help us all the time or do things for us, and we rarely thank them for those gestures that go beyond material things. If you ...

Go looking for a thank you card and write to them. They might seem small, these businesses, these moments, these gestures, this lesson. But the bigger picture looks less promising without them.

DEAR STILL IN GRIEF: I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter. You’ve been through something awful and there’s no timetable ...